Brothers and Best Friends!
Fraternal twins, Jayden and Julian, have been inseparable since birth. The almost three-year-old brothers have barely spent more than a few days apart, but when Julian was diagnosed with Leukemia, that changed. As Julian began an intense cancer treatment schedule at Ann & Robert H Lurie Children’s Hospital, Jayden’s role in his life grew, from being a brother to a cheerleader as well.
Their separation was further intensified by the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic. The rules and regulations meant that Jayden was unable to cheer him on in person at the hospital. However, when Julian is admitted, he and Jayden find ways to keep their strong connection. Mom, Kristina, says they FaceTime during these long stays, and hug each other when Julian returns each time like it’s the first time they have been apart.
Although Jayden might not realize it, his support is crucial for Julian’s development and success. Jayden’s support provides his brother with the love needed to keep on fighting. Despite experiencing brain damage that caused issues with Julian’s vision and paralysis on the left side of his body, he always has a smile on his face when he’s around his brother. The rambunctious duo love to play together 24/7, which is helping Julian regain the motor skills he lost. According to mom, Julian is now, “kicking butt and doing great.”
For Kristina, the lucky friendship of Jayden and Julian is what gives her comfort and hope during such a difficult time. The task of a childhood cancer parent is grueling, and it’s easy to become isolated. As Kristina put it herself, “daily life freezes, but the bills don’t stop.” With Compass to Care’s assistance, Julian’s parents have been able to keep up with the rising costs of gas and parking. Kristina hopes to return to normal, and for Jayden and Julian to experience a future of always supporting each other and sticking together.